Chapter 11: Build 10.5

Every day is a new beginning and a chance to become better.

Not everyone recognizes this, however throughout life we always will rebuilding and changing. Sometimes this can come at a high cost, especially when people are the center of the conflict or holding us back. Sometimes we need to cut lose especially when the people we have surrounded our selves with have been trying to define who we are. I have had to do this recently and it has allowed me the freedom to do my own thing. Sometimes people think they have us figured out and then we change things.

I have recently got rid of Facebook and a huge circle of friends, due to a recent social issue with some of them who had been talking behind my back and it created a lot of issues in my life with a certain individual who was friends with my ex whom, I have had numerous mental health professionals define as abusive emotionally and mentally on top of being manipulative. I am not surprised his friends are the ones who are causing mayhem. However, my response was not the best. This got me thinking, some people are in a constant state of stagnation and never move forward. Do the people in my life continue to be stagnant or do I surround myself with people who are moving forward?

Bigger question why do I allow people who obviously have grown to be toxic, or not on the same level as me to be in my life and affect me mentally? When is it time to give me control?

Thus a new idea emerged why not just let them think whatever they want, and simply move on with my life and not give them the time of day. Obviously, these people criticize without solutions or advice and control. My life would be better without them. Just do it. This has been a concept I have struggled with for so long, obviously, people are going to have their opinions and not ask for clarity or facts. Why bother attempting to change their mind. Itiseasiwr to move on with my life, especially since I know who I am. If they want to talk down to me that's fine, but their actions are the big part I must address.

For the last couple of months, I have been working on builds, I have gone through 3 of them, in my absence from my blog. A platform to speak my mind and give advice from !y own revelations, I have a tool and I am going to use it. Welcome back everyone and keep in contact.